mindless thoughts

dear exs, we dont talk and its probably best to only vent about you online in a place where you are more than likely never going to stumble across. here is my advice to all of you on what i believe you should change from our relationship in order for you to have a stable one now/in the future. bryan, you moved way too uncomfortably fast. sure, it was my first relationship but even now guys should never move that fast. give a girl some space/time to breathe. also, your cute gestures that early in a relationship could be taken as being creepy. bryce, if youre going to date a girl, at least speak to her when you see her in public. chris, where do i even begin. dont blame the girl for you wanting to change. there is nothing wrong with a person wanting to redevelop themselves. dont burn your arms in her driveway or go into raging meltdowns. girls dont know what to do when guys are unstable. please dont be so controling. let her have friends and go out and have fun. i know what its like to be jealous, but really whats the point? stop being vengeful and get over the pety bullshit. talk through your problems and dont bottle them all up inside. brandon, stop lying. stop trying to be someone youre not, and if you are that guy then stop pretending like youre this good guy. dont mess with girls minds and break other hearts along the way, its not fair for anyone. you were such a good kid, ask yourself what happened.jerry, stop doing drugs. stop and look around you. where could you be and where are you now? dont ruin something good just because you think it wont work out. nick, never propose to a girl with your best friend on his knee next to you. do not be so lazy. get a job.maintain said job. treat her special. stop begging and expecting and start doing and receiving. realize that parents arent always right and stay under their wing forever its not healthy. youre welcome, amanda